New York Girl Again - The After

Holding the Impossible: The Paradox of The After

New York Girl Again Season 1 Episode 44

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You can miss them… and still want your life back. 
You can feel grief… and relief. 

If life after caregiving feels confusing… you’re not alone. 

In this episode, Thérèse explores the emotional reality of life after caregiving, grief, and healing—discusses the concept of paradoxical thinking and why conflicting emotions are not a sign that something is wrong. 

👉 You’re not broken. You’re holding two truths at once.  

Drawing on insights from Brené Brown’s Strong Ground, along with psychological research on emotional complexity, this episode explains why caregivers in The After often feel: 

  • grief and relief  
  • loss and freedom  
  • love and a desire to reclaim their own life   

You’ll learn: 

✔ Why healing after caregiving feels so complicated
✔ The psychology behind conflicting emotions
✔ How to stop judging your feelings in grief
✔ What it means to “hold paradox” instead of trying to fix it 

 This episode also explores a deeper truth many struggle to name: 

👉 Someone can be a good person… and still fail you deeply. 

If you’ve been asking yourself: 

Why do I feel this way after caregiving?
Why can’t I just move forward? 

This episode will help you understand: 

You’re not behind in your healing.  You’re experiencing it in its most honest form. 

 🎧 Listen now to begin navigating grief, identity, and emotional healing after caregiving—with more clarity, compassion, and self-trust. 

 ✨ You’re not broken.  ✨ You’re holding the impossible.